October 04, 2004

On Changes...

Changes are good in a way, however it can also be the one thing that prevents you from what you like the most.

In the name of love people have always tried to change the one person they love the most to be according to their images.

Tell me, then, does the person stays the same person?
Is the person not mere product of imagination?
How can you love someone without a "soul"?

Since when does love turn to this impenetrable fortress or unbreakable chain? Is not meant to be as a freer instead of imprisonment?

When wishing for someone or something to change... Is that a fair enough wish? If the one we love in dreams are so precious, why give feelings to someone else then try to change the person according to what is in dream?

Is it not the beauty of the soul that is the most important?
Is it not the fact that the person can love you back that is the most important?
Is it not the truth that when a person is capable of loving another that is a miracle?

Sacrifices? Does love need sacrifices? Anything you did, do, or will do for the person you love, shouldn't it be done out of "pleasure"? Because you love the person, you do something for the person. Because you like the person, you give the person something...

How can a gift from the heart demand something in return?
How can a deed out of free will be something in need of motive?
How can you claim that to love is to sacrifice?

To deprive someone of pleasure or joy or happiness in the name of love... Is that love itself? Is it not about wishing for others? Despite our own wishes?

When you open your eyes and see the person in front of you,
Rejoice and be glad for who they are.
When you tell someone and whisper in the person's ear,
Say it and mean it.
For whoever person has your love and love you in return has made a dent in your life,
Try as you may, yet love never ends.
Its beginning is as ancient as the universe itself,
And it spans to eternity...

Changes are good, be it done out of free will. Yet do not, for your pleasure, change someone. When you love the person for who and what they are, that is when the miracles start to unfold. That is when you see the masterpiece and the whole meaning of you, your existence...
Ad infinitum...

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